Sunday, May 21, 2017

Time Stealers - are they a thorn in your side as you labor to do your Family History?

John 10:10King James Version (KJV)

10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

I thought this was a great scripture to pare with family and family history.  
We start out in life with no guarantee of how long we will inhabit this earth.  We spend our early years learning as much as we can just to grow and survive.  Then we take all that knowledge and put it into our life blood, our work, what puts the bacon on the table.  At some point in time, we are stealing time, either away from family, or work, or our dreams; nevertheless, life becomes balancing act.  The stresses we absorb take their tolls on us and our loved ones and then suddenly, it's time to retire and start reflecting on if we used our time wisely over the span of so many years.  

Time stealers, can be as innocent as working on projects that don't have our best interest at heart, or watching something on television that will not enhance our lives.   It can be in not being organized so that we are recreating the wheel of time by repeating something which could have been done once.  I am sure you realize the Satan is the Father of all time stealing.  He delights to steal your time, destroy your spirit and kill your feelings towards your family.

Using our time wisely to investigate and learn more about our heritage is about as natural to me as eating dinner.  It should be like that to everyone and I'll explain why.  When we come to this world, we are part of an eternal family.  We've always been a part of a family and going forward, our grandchildren will someday get their faces out of video screens and realize that we, indeed belong to them; their true family.

I look back now and wonder, why didn't I ask more questions about my heritage?  Why didn't I ask my Grandmother to tell me more stories, instead of saying, "I know Grandma, you told me that one before".  There is a finite amount of time in which our Grandparents had their memories and stories.  If they don't print them down or use one of us to type them up for our posterity, they become lost forever.  
One of the reasons why I create a parallel reality of time lines and history of the towns and people where they lived, is because I want to create a bond of empathy for what they endured.  I want to know what life was like and this is my penitence for not asking more before my Grandmothers both passed in 1983 and 1986.  At that time in my life, I was in the thralls of trying to keep a dying marriage together, and take care of 5 kids, trying to make sure they had enough gospel knowledge along with common sense, to make it in this life.   There wasn't a lot of time for asking questions in my mind.  I did start working on family history in 1978 but without technology, it was laborious at best.

If there is a movie at the theater that you really want to see and it is only here for 2 weeks, you orchestrate your life to fit it in.  If there is a special event and you need a new outfit, purse and shoes, you bet you are going to make the time to go shopping!  My mother used to say, when she asked me to clean my room or do something that I clearly had no personal use of time for, "You always have time for the things you want to do".   That is so true.  Of course, to a 13 year old girl, it was just mere fodder for an opportunity to do some eye rolling, but I see it in my life today.
I hope if you have procrastinated working on increasing your knowledge of your family, you will set some time each day to become a life detective and find out what happened to them....did they realize their dreams?   You have the ability to make them feel like their time here was not wasted.  You have the ability to help them to feel that their life gave meaning to your life and you learned some life's lesson from their existence.

Here are some scriptures that have to do with Time Managment.  The thing I love about Mondays, is it is another fresh start day.  This is a day to make a change in your life of how you will spend your time.    You can pick up the phone and call an Aunt or Uncle and ask them each the exact same questions about what life was like, then compare and contrast the two.  If you have Grandparents, by all means, get them on the phone and record their story.  This is something you will never regret.

Colossians 4:5 - Walk in wisdom toward them that are without, redeeming the time.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 - To every [thing there is] a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:   (Read More...)

John 17:4 - I have glorified thee on the earth: I have finished the work which thou gavest me to do.

Psalms 90:12 - So teach [us] to number our days, that we may apply [our] hearts unto wisdom.

Romans 13:11 - And that, knowing the time, that now [it is] high time to awake out of sleep: for now [is] our salvation nearer than when we believed.

James 4:14 - Whereas ye know not what [shall be] on the morrow. For what [is] your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.

Ephesians 5:16 - Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.

Ephesians 5:15 - See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise,

Romans 12:1-21 - I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, [which is] your reasonable service.   (Read More...)

1 Corinthians 7:29 - But this I say, brethren, the time [is] short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;

Psalms 31:15 - My times [are] in thy hand: deliver me from the hand of mine enemies, and from them that persecute me.

Once when my daughter was 10, we came up with a list of questions that were identical in nature and called and recorded the answers to those questions with all four grandparents.  It was so enlightening.  We found out that one Grandfather lived on one side of the Bay and the other lived in San Francisco.  Both were 10 years old when they attended the World's Fair in Oakland at Treasure Island.  The lines were long, but both boys were eager to see the newest inventions and you may be surprised, but their favorite was the television.  

As the line wound around and through buildings, you would walk through one room and there would be a camera taking your picture.  By the time you made it to the other room, there you were on a screen in the middle of the next room.  This conversation brought light into the voices of these men as they told how utterly thrilling that experience was.    And to think, they were at the same location at the same time is even more amazing. 

 Doing this lesson in Service was a great use of my daughter's time.  She grew to love her grandparents for more than just the gifts they would send for special occasion.  Our parents were elated that someone from their posterity would take the time to stop and learn about what was real to them as children.

That was a great day!  What will your week be like?  Send me an email and let me know how you are doing with your family history and your use of your valuable time.  Would love to hear about it!

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Saturday, May 20, 2017

THE STORY BEHIND "Under Cover!" By Karen S Meyer -FREE GIVEAWAY DETAILS! now available on Amazon

THE STORY: Under Cover! By Karen S Meyer
It’s 1990 and a coup has overtaken the Russian Government.
America needs to keep her guard up and her two newest FBI agents are struggling to get along with each other. They respect each other for their strengths, but would never volunteer to work together.

The Director assigns them to work together under cover to stop a Russian spy ring in California at Northrup.

They know there is a leak, but are not clear on how the secrets are leaving the building. Plans for the newest Stealth Bomber are at risk.

Not only do they have to work together, they need to become a newlywed couple in love...and Mormon because that is something the spies would never suspect.

Probably the most important words in the book are when the Director tells them that "This is the Book of Mormon. Read it, Learn it, know it, Live it. That is all."  

That truly might sound easier than it is to do, but Andie knows about Anson’s past as a Naval Air Top Gun Pilot and all about his heroic mission.  However that mission was not without a price.  A near fatal mishap with his plane has caused him to not enjoy air travel.   She also knows the commitment to lifestyle change when you choose to live as a Mormon. They are to meet at the Dulles International Airport in the morning for their flight to California. This is their chance to prove their worth to their Country, crack the case and become heroes.  First, Anson must conquer his fear of flight without alcohol.

The agency has given them a completely furnished home right across from the suspect’s
home.  There is a bungalow in the back which houses former McCarthy era agents who will watch over the couple as their housekeeper and handyman.   It has 5 bedrooms but the master bedroom remains unoccupied.  The two side bedrooms are occupied by Andie and Anson respectively as it should be.  They are merely posing as a married couple to outsiders.

There are some interesting moments, like when they have a catered event at their new home and a couple from the church wanders upstairs at different times.  One happens into the master bedroom, which obviously, is just for show and the other accidentally goes into the surveillance room.

The husband, a former Top Gun wingman of Anson’s, knows something is afoot as soon as he steps into the room.  With his military experience, he knows a top secret surveillance operation when he sees one.  He does not mention it to his wife.  She in turn, after seeing the separate bedrooms and the obviously unoccupied Master Bedroom, is sure they are having marital difficulties and in need of counseling by what she encounters. She does not mention this to her husband.

One of Andie’s objectives is to get close to the Wife and daughter of the suspect.  What they don’t realize is that they are being held hostage and terrorized by the Russians for the plans.  So learning about little Faith and why she is sad all the time is as important as bugging John Smithe’s home.

Anson, working in concert with the management, creates a con to exchange briefcases, enter the airlock in the Lab and switch the microdots.

 The culminating scenes occur when a Victor Class 2 Russian Nuclear Sub enters the waters in Ventura on the beaches at Malibu.  The plans are handed off to the away team of the sub.  While the away team raft bobs in the surf, some crewmen scramble back into the raft and the FBI team goes to guns to finalize their mission.

A thrilling adventure awaits you.  I hope you enjoy this book.

When asked what inspired such an endeavor, Karen mentioned, "I spoke to several people who worked there at the real Northrop from the 60s to the 90s and were my neighbors.  They later said that the security there was not the best; plans could have possibly escaped detection but there was no evidence of that. That perked my interest to further investigate and imagine the possibilities.  Since I was there in Newbury Park when the plant closed down and knew a couple of the employees personally, I saw how its closure affected the community.  Of course, the Coup was really in 1991 and I spelled Northrop as Northrup in the novel to differentiate between fiction and non-fiction.”

My audience is clearly LDS based.  An example of LDS humor is exchanged when meeting with the Bishop.  He merely asks them if they have Temple Recommends.  Here’s an excerpt:

          “About Temple Recommends”, he waited for their reply with eyebrow’s raised.

          “Uh.  I don’t know.  Honey, what do you think? Do you know of any that you could recommend?”, Anson was stuck.  He was drowning and begging for a rope.

          “Let’s see”, Andie chimed in, “there’s one in Oakland.  I heard it has beautiful golden spires that light up at night on the hill.  Breathtaking.  I would certainly recommend that one.  And then there’s one in Salt Lake City, Utah. It’s supposed to be pretty nice to visit”, she smiled knowing that she had aced that question,

          “Uh-huh.  Is there anything you would like to get off your chest?  Anything at all?”  The Bishop’s eyes seemed to look right into their souls.

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Friday, May 19, 2017

Exploring your Native American Heritage

A couple of weeks ago, I happened to attend Church on the Papago Reservation and was so impressed with the people.  It made me realize that when you live on a reservation, your heritage is much easier to unravel because all of the records are right there.  Elders who were there, spoke of knowing the grandparents of several people and even their great grandparents.   It was such a loving experience.  I felt the heavens open up through their eyes and absorbed the pride that the parents who had gone before had in their earthbound children who were carrying on great traditions.  It was a tremendously Spiritual experience for me.

I have been trying to trace my heritage back for years.  I had a picture of my Great Great Grandfather, Joseph Lyons who with his wife Mary walked the trail of tears.  However, one of my children took it for show and tell without telling me and lost it at school.  That was a tragedy.

I have family folklore about mother walking downtown in Banty, Oklahoma, near Durant and people asking her if she were an injun'.  "You didn't dare say yes because it would open a can of whoop ***", she said.  That was in 1928 when she was 4 and my grandfather, the Grandson of Joseph and Mary,( we didn't know last names) lost his battle with life from inhaling mustard gas from a faulty World War 1 gas mask.   It literally made his intestines disintegrate over time.  That was the second tragedy
Walter Riley Collins 1918
Walter Riley and Dora Collins with their baby
born in 1920

The third is that when I first started researching the Collins - we didn't know Caroline's maiden or married name was Lyons.  But found it on My Great Grandparent's marriage license, so that was a break.  But we found that after 20 years because it was .

It's been a struggle, and because I have been working so hard at it, the visit to the Papago Ward was that much sweeter.  My family doesn't belong to their tribe - we are of the Cherokee descent.  If you have been watching the news some interesting things have evolved about Cherokees and taking the Ancestry and 23and me DNA tests solidified my research and theories.

Did you know that Cherokees migrated here from the North Western tip of Africa and the Iberian Peninsula - which at one time were joined together like a puzzle -

Here is an excerpt from The American Indian, Descendent of the Lost Tribes?

"Last month’s column sketched the “basis” for the belief that the American Indian is descended from the Ten Lost Tribes. One of the foremost proponents of this theory was the Indian trader James Adair (c.1709-1783). In 1775 he wrote The History of the Indians,[i]arguably the most significant eighteenth-century work on the southeastern Indians, in which he presented 23 arguments that “proved” the North American aborigines were descended from the Ten Lost Tribes. These are:
“1. Their division into tribes. 2. Their worship of J-hov-h. 3. Their notions of a theocracy. 4. Their belief in the administration of angels. 5. Their language and dialects. 6. Their manner of counting time. 7. Their prophets and high priests. 8. Their festivals, fasts and religious rites. 9. Their daily sacrifice. 10. Their ablutions and anointings. 11. Their laws of uncleanliness. 12. Their abstinence from unclean things. 18. Their marriage, divorces and punishments of adultery. 14. Their several punishments. 15. Their cities of refuge. 16. Their purifications and preparatory ceremonies. 17. Their ornaments. 18. Their manner of curing the sick. 19. Their burial of the dead. 20. Their mourning for the dead. 21. Their raising seed to a deceased brother. 22. Their change of names adapted to their circumstances and times. 23. Their own traditions, the account of English writers; and the testimonies given by Spaniards and other writers of the primitive inhabitants of Mexico and Peru.”

and from this site:

There are theories about the Cherokee Tribe originating in Israel and migrating to the Iberian Peninsula.  When we did my DNA, it said I was only 1% Native American, yet my family just happens to have populated America early in the 1600-1700 time frame in the North Carolina/South Carolina area which is typical of the Cherokee Nation

This shows where those people with the same Haplo groups of the Cherokee Nation settled in the early 1700s

If you have any idea about your Native American History, it would be wise to take a DNA test.
We have taken 3 now.  had results that said I was only 1% but their documentation of the migratory patterns were excellent
My only slightly paralleled my research with my family.  They missed the boat entirely saying that I was 1% JAPANESE.  That does not follow any logic that I have been able to prove or  disprove.

Our Favorite was 23 and Me - This gave me over 77 reports that paralleled my research, matched's records and also gave me many medical reports that confirmed that I do not have the Alzheimer's Gene - whew! and many other enlightenments.

It was well worth the cost.  Let me know how it goes for you!


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